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1 giugno 2018

TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BURGEOISE 7


TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BURGEOISE 7
Blushing all over again and excited at the same time I repeated :
"Yes Madame, I accept to become your cleaning woman for a year!"

"Very well Maria, I am your employer from now on!!" she said triumphantly
and she continued : "Now you asked before about practical matters,
you are right we have to sort them out. First of all you will put our
agreement in writing and send it to your solicitor. Not everything of
course, just write simply that due to a prolonged absence abroad you are
authorising me, Monique Perreira dos Santos to handle all your financial
affairs, pay all the bills and run the household paying the domestic
staff (that is you!) etc,etc. Then you notify in writing all the people
that you think they might contact you, telling them that you are going
abroad for an indefinite amount of time to recover from the shock of
loosing your husband to another woman. Also you will apply to your bank
to issue credit cards in my name. Of course I'll take your credit cards,
and your car keys, your are not allowed to drive anymore, only public
transport for you. You will receive all the money that I earn from my
various domestic and cleaning jobs which you are going to undertake from
now on." She stopped seeing me getting more and more uneasy.

"But Mon.... I mean Madame aren't we moving a bit too fast here? Probably
I should stay at home for a few days to adapt to my new role and then..."

She interrupted me abruptly in an annoyed manner : "Leave that to me
Maria, I'll organise everything for you. I have lots of close contacts
and trusted friends among the Portuguese community of maids and cleaners,
soon you will be part of their world.". She looked at me again and became
more formal : "Now finish what you are doing here and run upstairs and
clean the bathroom I just used, and tidy up the bedroom. I have a few
phone calls to make, then we'll talk again." She turned and walked back to
the Living Room her heels clicking elegantly. She was 'la patronne' now.
(7- a suivre)


13 settembre 2015

TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BURGEOISE 3


TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BURGEOISE 3
by Conchita
translated from French and adapted by Monica 

I followed her instructions like a robot. I was about to finish filling
the tub when I heard her voice form the bedroom : "Marie Benedicte, could
you come here for a moment?" I went back to the bedroom, she was wearing
one of my bathrobes. She looked mischievously at me : "I decided to test
your good intentions, I thought that when I'll be having my bath you can
go down and finish the housework that I left undone. Would you like to do
that for me?" I was about to refuse it, proposing something of the type
' I can wait for you to finish your bath and we can do it together like
partners', but she didn't give me the chance. Instead she continued :
"I won't take no for an answer, be a good sport and play our little game."

I blushed again and said meekly : "Ok Monique, I'll do it, tell me what
you want me to do". I thought I saw a triumphant glimpse in her eyes but
she kept her cool and said in a 'giving instructions or orders tone':
" Just finish the dusting and vacuuming in the living, dining area and
then do the kitchen properly, do the dishes, clean the tops and mop the
floor thoroughly. Ok pet?" now she started calling me pet. I started to
go out of the room but she stopped me again : "Did you forget something
Marie Benedicte?" I turned around looking puzzled and with a big grin
she indicated at the pile of clothes on top of the bed. "You forgot
your working clothes dear!" And she was pointing to her overall dress,
apron and head scarf.

This time I did turn red from embarassment. "But Monique I don't have to
be dressed like you to do the housework, I can do it in my T-shirt and
jeans." This time she got red but from pure anger and said to me abruptly
: "Listen to me Marie Benedicte, either you do it my own way or I get
dress and go this instant and you will not see me again!" She stopped
to catch her breath, boy she was angry now, and continued : "I have been
doing that all my life and I am over 40 now, cleaning houses and offices
and public toilets and being an hotel maid and anything menial you can
think off. I am fed up of being a Portuguese maid, probably you can get
the feeling what it is like not to be an arrogant bourgeoise and be in
the other side of the fence."
(3- à suivre)

29 giugno 2015

TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BOURGEOISE 1

TRANSFORMATION D'UNE BOURGEOISE
by Conchita
translated from French and adapted by Monica

Translators Note
The story is happening in Paris of the early 1970s and could be based on real facts. At the time Portugal was still a very poor country and not a member of the European Union. Lots of poor girls and married women were coming from there to work in France as factory workers, cleaners and maids. Many of those girls were working as live in maids in many Parisian bourgeois houses or apartments. If they were working in
apartments they had there own separate rooms at the top of the building, usually in the 6th floor, at what was called 'la chambre de bonne' (maid's room). Of course there was no elevator in those buildings of the late
19th century and the maids were going down from the back service stairs
to the kitchen door of the apartment they were working. They were not
allowed to use the font entrance of the building even when they were out
of uniform and not on duty. For them there was the back or side service
entrace to come and go, the same way that the garbage was coming down as
well. All those apartment buildings had there own live in concierge who
had a little place to stay either by the entrance or in the basement. The
concierge was usually the 'terror' of all live in maids because she was
checking on them all the time, reporting back to their employers.

So the term Portuguese maid/housekeeper or 'femme de menage Portugaise'
was synonymous to a poor backwards peasant girl or woman often illiterate,
coming form the rural areas of Portugal to work in the sophisticated
Paris. The rich bourgeois Parisians had the tendency of course to look
down on them.

At the time they were lots of specialized shops in those rich Parisian
suberbs, selling 'domestic workwear' for those in live in service. Those
shops were called 'blouses et tabliers boutiques' (overalls and aprons
shops).

In today's Paris, as elsewhere in the western world live in maids are a
rarity. Portuguese women are rich and elegant an go to Paris for their
shopping and the 'blouses et tabliers boutiques' are nearly gone.

CHAPTER 1
My husband left me!! I simply can not believe it! It finally happened
and it happened just like that. Yesterday he announced to me that he had
an affair with a nurse (how banal Mon Dieu!) Working in his clinic and
they were moving out of the country to start new parallel careers in an
exclusive private clinic in Milan, Italy! I simply can not believe it,
my husband decided to leave his beloved Paris for an Italian city, even
if that is Milan? Later I understood that this was planned well ahead and
it was me in my notorious innocence and naivety that didn't pick anything.

He packed a suitcase of clothes and personal things in a haste and left
yesterday evening directly for the airport, they had a late flight to
catch. He said that He didn't need anything else from the house which
belonged to me anyway, through family inheritence. But in a goodwill
gesture, as he said, he left everything that we bought together for the
house the five years we stayed together.

We parted as friends without unnecessary scenes, we both were low key
people and we didn't like screams and abuses. He even managed to convince
me that he wasn't good enough for me, he wasn't the type of man I needed
etc. Probably he had a point. I really don't know. Of course after he
was gone a terribe emptiness overtook me and I started crying bitterly
on my own. It took me some time to calm down and only after I took a
sleeping tablet I was able to go into a deep dreamless sleep.

I opened my eyes quite late the next day, it was past ten in the morning
and I could hear the familiar noise of the vacuum cleaner from the floor
below. God I forgot! It was Monique our Portuguese cleaning lady. I felt
uneasy I had to explain to her what happened. She was coming to the house
3 times a week and we were quite happy with her. All of sudden the feeling
of emptiness came back to me. I was still thinking in terms of WE, but
I was alone now! Tears started coming up tp my eyes and I desperately
tried to control myself.

Soon I was in the dining room where usually breakfast was served when
Monique was around. She saw me and I must have looked quite a sight
because she stopped what she was doing and came towards me, a concerned
look in her face. She looked very neat in her light blue overall dress
and her matching bib apron and head scarf. I was a firm believer that
a domestic in the house should look the part, nothing fancy, just a
practical maid's uniform.

"Bonjour Madame, you look terrible this morning, is everything
alright?" "Non Monique pas du tous, everything is not alright" I said
and tears started coming up again. "Pauvre Madame, please tell everything
to Monique"

And I started and I said to her in detail what happened, sobbing softly
at the same time.
(1- à suivre)